Wednesday, September 30, 2015

ドラマ (Dorama) Time! 10 - pt. 1

Before it gets too deep into fall, I'd like to share with y'all the set of dramas that I watched over the summer. This is part one. It should be known that I largely watch Japanese dramas without English subs now (yay for progress! And also for not having enough patience to wait on subtitlers to do their thing, woo!). Now, on with the review!

花咲舞が黙ってない (Hanasaki Mai ga Damattenai 1&2/Hanasaki Mai Isn't Keeping Quiet) - NTV/2014 & 2015

I'm lumping these two seasons together because very episode is the same. They all go as follows. As the quality control investigations team at a huge Tokyo bank, Hanasaki Mai (Anne Watanabe) and Souma (Kamikawa Takaya) are sent to check out an irreguliarity at a particular branch. Some big bad wolf of an executive there is doing something he shouldn't be, and is either pinning it on a little guy or making the little guy cover up the misdeed. Souma at first tries to rein in Hanasaki's temper and inquisitive nature ("I hate to disagree, but..."), but Hanasaki never gives up and eventually they both get down to what the problem is. Then Hanasaki confronts the wrongder, chastizing him for not being fit as a banker, and he tells her to shut up but she refuses ("Damarimasen!"). Then Hanasaki and Souma go on about their day, excitedly planning out what restaurants and local specialties they'll check out on their next assignment. Meanwhile the wrongdoer is punished, and everybody's boss's boss takes in the news with chagrin that Hanasaki and Souma are always getting in the way of his circle of corruption. On to the next one. And that's literally how every single episode goes. Not bad, just repetitive.

I appreciate Hanasaki being a strong character with an even stronger sense of justice who stands up for herself and others, but this free spirit of hers is severely hindered by the male-centered industry she works in. Men (even her work partner Souma) are always trying to shut her up, and no one takes her seriously precisely because she's a woman, and a woman who speaks her mind at that. The show often raises the question of what are banks for, and what role should they play in society? Hanasaki and Souma (and thus, the show itself) emphasize that the well-being of employees and clients─people─matter more than numbers and profits. But someone is always there trying to prove them wrong. Check this show out if you want to get a feel for model-turned-actress Anne Watanabe's acting chops and physical comedy, or if you just want decent Japanese listening comprehension practice without having to get too engaged with the storyline. 

カレ、夫、男友達 (Kare, Otto, Otoko Tomodachi/Boyfriend, Husband, Guy Friend) - NHK/2011 

I watched this entire series in two days. It's a tale of three sisters who struggle individually with love and defining the relationships they have with the men in their lives. Main character and middle sister Haruko (Yoko Maki, also from 'Saiko no Rikon' and 'Mondai no Aru Restaurant') is a modern woman who does what she wants, determined to live life in the moment and without regrets. She doesn't feel the need to be tied down with marriage or labels like "boyfriend", when sometimes all she wants is sex. She puts herself first and though she doesn't try to hurt people, she's often oblivious to how her actions affect others. She loves her live-in boo only so far as it doesn't compromise her lifestyle; thus she can't commit to him they way he commits to her.

Older sister Asako is the exact opposite of Haruko, having taken on the traditional role of housewife with zeal, so eager to prove how great and proper her life is to her family that she endures daily physical and mental abuse from her husband behind closed doors (a victim who demonstrates the ways in which abused women often feel a warped sense of responsibility to stay, not just out of fear but also out of a duty to protect or save their abuser). Youngest sister and college student Ikuko sometimes sees herself as an alien because she doesn't relate to other people nor see the appeal in love and relationships like "normal" people do. She engages in relationships and has sex with her partners because she's curious as to what the big deal is, and thinks this is what she has to do to be more like a regular human being. Originally a daddy's girl, she also has major daddy issues and holds a grudge against her father for cheating on their mom and leaving to marry a younger woman. Together and separately, this trio of sisters is out there just trying to figure it out. I guess the most prominent lesson I took from this drama is that sometimes you can't fight your feelings. Even if you don't want to be in love, even if you think you've come to terms with the breakup, even if the person you love has hurt you unforgivably. And sometimes, despite all those feelings, you must accept when done is done and move forward with your head held high.

'Hanasaki Mai' had huge ratings when both of its seasons aired, but it's just meh to me. However I would highly recommend 'Kare, Otto, Otokotomodachi'! It's geared toward women, but if you're not the type to unnecessarily shy away from so-called "chick flicks" or "girly" shows for fear of cooties, give it a shot!

Be on the lookout for part two tomorrow!

Sunday, September 27, 2015

Speech.

Ma (talking about Tyler Perry/OWN tv shows with my aunt over the phone): Naw Ion't look at dat. I can't be startin' dat this late in da game. I'll have to do one a those... one a those.... Danielle what you call dat thang where people watch summ'n fuh hours and days?

Me: Binge-watching?

Ma (to my aunt on the phone): Yeah, binge-watching. I'mma have to do dat.

No shade at all, I poke fun at her all the time but I actually lovelovelove when Ma is in her zone and lets all of her AAVE/Kentucky out through her speech. Reminds me of how warm it feels to speak freely, choosing to not speak "properly" precisely because you don't have to. :)

Saturday, September 26, 2015

STROMAE !!! :)

The. Hypest. Show. Of. My. Whole. Entire. Life.
 
Granted I've only ever been to two other concerts in my life, but I wholeheartedly stand by that statement.

Now, Chrisette Michele put me in my place with her beastly vocals and stellar showmanship last year. But Stromae? Stromae showed me what it means to get TURNT. I lost control and came outside of myself, and I owe it all to you (and to Jidenna who opened,  of course). After injuring yourself and canceling a show in Minneapolis earlier this week, you came to Detroit Royal Oak and showed all of us how it's done. Merci de nous avoir donné de votre meilleur! You changed my life and I thank you for that.



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Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Current Podcast Diet

Below is a list of my current podcast diet, in order of familiarity. The ones I listen to most are in bold. I might spend more time writing about each one later (like I've already done with The Read). But right now I just wanted to leave this list here because I've been listening to podcasts almost around the clock recently, plus it's a convenient excuse to introduce a particular episode that is affecting me as I write this.

Love Hour (Kevonstage/Kevin Fredericks and Melissa Fredericks)
The Read (Kid Fury and Crissle West)
The Black Dad Podcast (Jamal Press and Murphy)
Another Round (Heben Nigatu and Tracy Clayton)
The Friend Zone (Assante, Dustin Ross, and HeyFranHey) 
MMHMM, GIRL (Lola and Babs)
Last Name Basis (Chescaleigh/Francesca Ramsey and Patrick)
For Colored Nerds (Brittany and Eric)

I'm currently listening to an episode of For Colored Nerds titled "Anything But Silence". Until this moment I'd never heard of writer Ashley Ford. But as I listen to her story about having a seemingly unfeasible passion, loving to write, not being able to thrive in situations she doesn't care about, and being prompted by long-held shame and guilt to share as little of herself with others as possible, yet still striving to develop and project her voice... she. is. me. Thank you for talking about your journey to becoming a professional writer and what you believe art is for. Bless you. If anybody's reading this, I hope you give this a listen and that it reminds you of something you've let go of in some way.






"Birdland" at New Way

Singing at the weekly jazz jam session at New Way Bar last night in Ferndale. First time performing in over a month due to a rut that I've been in. Trying to get back. In the mean time, enjoy. :)


Do what you do

"You gotta do what you do, with what God gave you to do what you do with!" 

-Pastor Douglas P. Jones, Welcome Missionary Baptist Church (the church I visited this past Sunday)

Saturday, September 19, 2015

135 Books?

According to Goodreads, I've read 135 books since I graduated from high school four years ago. Is there something wrong with me? This isn't humble bragging. I'm seriously concerned and asking, is there something wrong with me?

I know that plenty of life must have happened during those four years, but 135 is a lot of books. When did this happen? Have I done nothing but read this whole time? I scroll through my "read" list and I recognize each book listed; I even remember the act of reading each one when I read them...but like, did I really read all of those books? Was that really me? Have I been sleeping? Am I some Black bookworm Rip Van Winkle or something? Does 135 books mean I've had no life? I guess I've just gotten used to reading so much that it's become a part of me and I don't think about it anymore. Not as a quantitatively measured task, I mean. 135. Hmm. Geez.