Tuesday, December 31, 2013

My Grandpa 10

Grandpa has the nerve to pass his cold on to me, then yell at me about how long it took me to get up this morning.
 
Grandpa: It is almost high noon, and y'all just now gettin' up. And why are you eatin' soup?
 
Me: You got me sick.
 
Grandpa: How'd I do that?
 
Me: You were sick, we're in the same house, and now I'm sick.
 
Grandpa: I didn't even come near you. So you can't put that on me.
 
Me: ...Ok, Grandpa. If you say so.

Learn to accept it and say "Thank You"

Tonight my Aunt Fay asked me if I was looking forward to going to Paris this coming summer. I told her that I'm too unsure and nervous to be excited about it. This is what she had to say to that:
 
A blessing is a free gift, so there's no need to be anxious about it when it comes your way. What are you going to do, turn it down? Sometimes it's hard for us to recognize and accept blessings because we don't feel like we deserve it, but obviously it must have been meant for you if it came to you in the first place. You can't do anything to earn a blessing, but what you can do is be grateful and thankful,  and show God that you're grateful and thankful.
 
 

Monday, December 30, 2013

100 Things That Happened This Year (part 2)

Y'all, this has proved to be so much harder than I thought it would be. It would've been easier to remember what happened throughout the year if I had been taking notes along the way. Maybe I'll do that next year? Anyway, for now, here's the rest of my list of happenings for 2013:
51) To my surprise, the good friends I've made since coming to college haven't gotten tired of me yet.
52) To my even greater surprise, I still managed to make new friends this year.
53) I received my first Rubik's cube.
54) I got out of Korean dramas (out of habit) and got back into Japanese ones (out of necessity).
55) I started cooking/baking for fun again!
58) I got a 3.5 in a class for the first time in my entire college career, and though I was disappointed and it lowered my GPA, it wasn't the end of the world.
59) I had a phone conversation with the professor who gave me said 3.5. She didn't change my grade (I hadn't tried to convince her to), but we had a really nice conversation about me being more vocal, about how much she respected me, and about how intelligent she thought I was.
60) I took a Korean history class through my school's rival. One of the most tedious yet interesting courses I've ever taken.
61) I FINALLY switched from iPhone to Android (Samsung > everybody else).
62) I read the book of Psalms. I read a number of other Old Testament books this year, but Psalms was my favorite.
63) I finally visited the Eli Broad Museum, aka the Spaceship.
64) Ma and I took pictures in a photo booth on my birthday.
65) I got a first-hand look at the foster care system which increased my sympathy for foster kids and my respect for social workers. It also further convinced me that I'd never want to be a social worker.
66) I took a Zumba class for the first time.
67) I was introduced to the wonderful world of "performance studies" and "ethnomusicology".
68) I applied, interviewed, and got to the final round of considerations for a research assistantship translating French-language documents from post-WW2.
69) I tried out for an acapella group on campus.
70) Working at an animal shelter led me to discover that I'm probably allergic to cats.
71) I shopped (thrifted?) at Goodwill on a whim.
72) I accepted the fact that though its arrogant and pompous school will always suck for being arrogant and pompous,  Ann Arbor is a far superior city to EL/the state capital.
73) Fruitvale Station, The Butler, 12 Years a Slave. Each of these films left me emotional.
74) Ma set the table for Thanksgiving and put up a wreath for Christmas, two things that haven't happened since I was a kid.
75) I got my grown-up driver's license and I liked the way I looked in the picture.
76) I saw Balé Folclórico da Bahia perform live (their 25th Anniversary Show "Bahia of All Colors").
77) Two different administrators at my school encouraged me to apply for National/International Fellowships and Scholarships. Never followed up on it because I decided they weren't for me, but I appreciated the gesture.
78) I considered auditioning for 'The Voice'.
79) I decided that if I ever did audition for 'The Voice', I would sing this song.
80) I got off one high horse and started drinking pop again, but only occasionally. 
81) I stayed on another high horse and refused to drink alcohol, even though it's legal for me now.
82) Some selfish fool hit my car and ran, and I was really shocked and frustrated about it at first. But then I figured, You know what, this is what people do, they break things. And now I can look at my dented front bumper and laugh.
83) I used a planner for the first time since high school.
84) I read a children's book for the first time since... well, since I was a child myself.
85) My aunt let me have a family portrait of me and my parents from 1994 as an extra birthday/Christmas present. Sometimes snooping does pay off.
86) I worked an art festival convincing strangers to let me take pictures of them in yoga poses.
87) A really nice young stranger stopped to tell me his life story, and even though I kind of dropped the ball, that experience was a really great lesson in humanity.
88) Ma and I went to the Detroit Jazz Festival for the first time!
89) I won the bidding for a picture of a Senegalese boy atop his camel at a student African photo exhibit.
90) I climbed one mountain, and attempted to climb a second one. Both of which were in Kyoto.
91) I met a very special person named "L".
92) I became friends with another very special person named "Ivy".
93) My dad sent me books for Christmas (I don't think he's ever done that before).
94) My dad sent me a hand-written letter (he's definitely never done that before).
95) I got my first physical copy of a Tokyo Jihen CD.
96) I shopped for myself at Macy's for the first time.
97) I exchanged cards with a stranger on my birthday.
98) I biked 9 miles for the first time in over four years.
99) It might not seem wise, but my first time walking two dogs at once was with a pair of pit bulls this fall. Other than sore arms from being pulled through the woods, they didn't give me any trouble.
100) I spent a month trying to come up with a "100 Things" list, and it's helped me realize that even though I tend to think of my life as boring and static, I've actually had quite the colorful year.

Thanks for taking the time to read about my year. Best wishes to you all in 2014. Be Happy and God Bless!

100 Things That Happened This Year (part 1)

I saw that someone had done a list like this on Facebook, and I thought it would be a good thing to do to help me reflect on this year and be more grateful. Y'all should give it a try too if you have the time. If today and tomorrow won't give you enough time, there's always next year. Anyway, here goes, in no particular order:
1) I started practicing yoga.
2) I started this blog.
3) I went to Arizona for a week.
4) I went to Japan for two months.
5) My dog turned 10.
6) I turned 21.
7) My mom decided to stop relaxing her hair.
8) I told a few people about this blog, and a few started reading it.
9) I took the JLPT.
10) I moved into a single room in my dorm, just me myself and I.
11) I went to a Christian conference that changed my life.
12) I joined an Asian Christian fellowship/bible study group and became acquainted with some pretty cool people.
13) I told my best friends about my secret, super embarrassing dream of becoming a singer-songwriter.
14) I started writing songs again.
15) Madiba passed away, and I cried.
16) I started seeing a therapist.
17) I participated in a Japanese-English blog project and got paid for it (my first time earning money in college!).
18) I became a volunteer at an animal shelter.
19) I changed churches.
20) I discovered Fela Kuti.
21) I read 3 French-language novels, 2 French-language plays, and 4 French-language short stories
22) I stopped calling my dad on the phone.
23) I decided that I definitely do not want to go to grad school anytime soon.
24) I auditioned for the Black Power Rally.
25) I joined YouTube and Instagram again.
26) I had a pretty spectacular karaoke night with my best friends for my birthday.
27) Ma, me, Madison, Ma's friend, and her daughter had an all-girls Thanksgiving together.
28) I started watching TV regularly again/keeping it on for background noise.
29) I went to a club for the first time, and met Talib Kweli!
30) My president started his second term.
31) I read over 20 books.
32) I developed a crush on a guy friend of mine, but got over it quickly.
33) I came to enjoy eating tomatoes.
34) People remembered my birthday.
35) I started planning out two of my life goals. (Ms. founder/CEO, here I come!)
36) I had a really terrible roommate experience. But it taught me a lot about myself and how to deal with difficult people/people in general.
37) I got a marketing internship but then gave it up because it didn't feel right to me, and I knew I couldn't commit to it like I'd thought.
38) Japanese/Asian-style karaoke!
39) Ma booked us a trip to San Francisco.
40) I was able to spend time with my friends from elementary/middle/high school in between returning from Japan and heading back to school.
41) I didn't have to pull an all-nighter (never have).
42) Milk tea, Japanese curry, green-tea flavored snacks, and takoyaki!
43) I finally got up the courage to go to French conversation tables at my school.
44) The University of Loo-uh-vuhl won the NCAA Championship and I made sure folks knew about it.
45) Summer Skype dates with Ma every Thursday, 7 PM Japan Time.
46) I got a video camera and actually used it for a little while.
47) I developed a strange fondness for public transportation (thanks to JR trains, subways, the Shinkansen).
48)  My family did a collective fast.
49) I got my first parking ticket.
50) I started keeping a daily journal because Sue told me to, and it's turning out to less of a task than I thought it would be.

Check out part 2 to find out what else has happened for me in 2013!

Disney's Strategy: Scare some sense into them

Watching the part in The Little Mermaid where Ariel signs the contract with Ursula, is stripped of her voice, and turns into a human.
 
Ma: This movie's supposed to be for kids, but it's a little too scary if you ask me.
 
Me: What are you talking about? That's what Disney does! Use fear to teach kids lessons. How else will they learn?
 
Watching the part where Ursula becomes ruler of the sea and turns into a gigantic raging sea monster.
 
 
Me: Uh... was this movie as scary when I watched it before? I don't remember it being like this.
 
Ma: See? I told you!
 
 

Thursday, December 26, 2013

My Grandpa 9

My family is talking and joking over breakfast.
 
Uncle R: Y'all sure are doin' a lot of coughin' and sneezin' around here. Stay away from me, I don't know y'all.
 
Aunt D: I know that's right.
 
Grandpa (to Aunt D): You the one who brought all that mess here.
 
Aunt D: Pops, if I got it,  I got it from you.
 
Grandpa: Naw, that was you. Soon as you called to say you were on the road comin' here, I got sick.

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

On Repeat: "Doin' It Right"

I know this song has been out for a while. I don't keep up with Daft Punk, so please excuse my being late on this.

"Doin' It Right" came on while I was at the mall yesterday, and as it played I couldn't help bobbing my head along with it. I kept thinking, Hmm, this is different. I like it. But I couldn't figure out who was singing it. When I looked it up, I found out that it was Daft Punk featuring a musician who calls himself Panda Bear.

At first, I misheard part of the lyrics as:
If you lose your way tonight that's how you know your path is bright

When really, it goes:
 If you lose your way tonight that's how you know the magic's right

But it's the same sort of message, so I wasn't too far off. This song is on Daft Punk's 2013 album Random Access Memories. And as to be expected from them, it's a groovy tune that encourages listeners to just let go and see what happens. What a great message to consider as we close out this year and prepare for the new one.

Merry Christmas, everybody!