Sunday, March 8, 2015

NOLA!: We're Here! (part 1)

After having such a wonderful time spending spring break in San Francisco last year, Ma and I decided to embark on our 2nd annual mother-daughter trip. Our destination: New Orleans!

We'd actually planned on going to NOLA last year, but my spring break coincided with Mardi Gras and Ma wasn't about to deal with all that. So we went to San Francisco instead. Since Mardi Gras would take place two weeks before spring break this year, we decided to go for it. Us not being the partying type, we figured it'd be more doable since the craziness would've gone down to its normal level by now. So we'd hoped...

After a rather short two-hour flight from Detroit to New Orleans yesterday afternoon, we headed to our hotel by shuttle along with 15 other travelers. We were the second to last group to be dropped off, so we got a nice impromptu tour of the French Quarter (or simply, "the Quarter") as the driver was dropping off everyone else. Bienville, Dauphine, Iberville, Decatur, Canal, St. Ann, Royal, Orleans, Toulouse, Bourbon... we rode through all of these streets, and in that order. It was a little unsettling at first because it wasn't even 4pm and hordes of people were already sauntering up and down the streets with their vim, their noise, and their open containers. But then you remember you're in the French Quarter, so you just have to get with it. Oh... okay. Folks don't get down like that back home, but alright then. Carry on.

Our hotel happens to be on Bourbon Street, which means we're smack dab in the middle of the action. But up on our floor you can't hear anything from the streets, so we managed to get the central location without the disturbed peace. Nice going, Ma! Our hotel also happens to be at the site of the old French Opera House (Théâtre de l'Opéra), which existed from 1859 to 1919 as a staple of New Orleans high society and the elite arts scene. For dinner we opted for the hotel restaurant Café Opéra, a French restaurant named for the building's past. Ma had the special, which was some sort of crab something, while I had the scallops vol au vent.The presentation was excellent but the food itself was just okay. However the service was pleasant, and the chef even stopped by our table to greet us. Not a bad start for our first meal in New Orleans, but also not a very impressive one.

From there we meandered through The Quarter heading toward  Café du Monde, a restaurant known for its famous beignets and café au lait. Along the way we passed two of many musical acts who were out making magic in the streets last night for passersby to enjoy (and to show their appreciation monetarily, of course). People playing music out in public is such a natural thing in this city that it's more than mere spectacle. It's more like an essential part of life here, and audience participation is often encouraged!
In no time we came around from behind St. Louis Cathedral and along Jackson Square to the O.G.
location of Café du Monde, which is on Decatur Street. This is where the fried, powdery goodness all began, back in 1862. You can order to-go from the window or seat yourself for table service. Only problem was, everyone and their mama was there! The to-go line was a mile long and there were no empty tables. We wanted to sit and enjoy the food since we had plenty of time, so Ma and I split up searching for place to sit. I just stood around watching people for a few minutes, until I got the hang of it.

The key is to rush to a table as soon as you see people getting up from it, and sit right there before anyone else does. Dirty dishes, trash, germs, warm seats, and all. Then the servers will come to you, clear the table, and take your order. I snagged a table this way, beating a young couple from Alabama to it. But since it was just me there at the time, they asked to share and I obliged. When Ma finally found us, she wasn't bothered by it either. The damage? Two orders of beignets (3 each) and two small hot chocolates for the both of us, all for just $10.60. So fluffy, and sweet, and gooey, and messy, and delectable, and so bad for you! I probably won't eat that stuff ever again because I know I don't need it, but I'm so glad that I was able to enjoy it, just once, in the restaurant where it originated.

From there we admired the night view of Jackson Square, and then walked up and down Decatur Street before returning to the hotel. Ma napped while I wrote this post. We were exhausted and were almost tempted to stay in. But even with the mounting madness outside, I insisted we venture back out since there was one more place that I wanted to visit...



Be sure to check out part 2! Click the link below for more photos!

Thursday, March 5, 2015

Outings: TEDxMSU!

TEDxMSU - Wharton Center (4 March)
  • x = independently organized TED event
  • theme: The Will. "The idea of willpower and the mental and physical processes by which brilliant ideas make it out of brain-space and mere musings... and into the real world."
  •  Had to drop out of the organizing team last semester, but I still managed to find the free way in─volunteering as an usher! I was way up top on the "tier" floor assisting guests and watching the show from a spectacular view!
  • Sooo many thought-provoking talks from creative, passionate, and candid people:
    • Shannon Cason- "It's Okay to Be the Bad Guy" (owning your stuff/your truth and being an honest storyteller)
    • Emily Weigel- "Hot or Not, Just Go for It" (patterns of sexual attraction and selection; what women want; behavior matters most)
    • John Nowak from the band Desmond Jones- "The Power of Music" (music therapy enhancing social skills for kids with special needs; the necessity/gift of the arts and music in human life)
    • TED@NYC video: Clint Smith - "The Danger of Silence"
    • Austin Martin- "Connection and Compassion in the Age of Mass Incarceration" (marginalization and precarious conditions that formerly-imprisoned people face; rehabilitation and re-entry navigation)
    • Sariah Metcalfe- "Land of the Free" (spoken word; my country is not mine; the US has yet to live up to its values; revolution, fighting to heal the world and clean up the mess)
    • Can (Aiden) Wang - "Chinese Hot Cars: A Stretched Family Bond (negative misconception of Chinese international students on MSU's campus as spoiled flashy rich kids; money as a means for Chinese families to maintain connection with their children)
    • TEDxToronto video: Dave Meslin- "The Antidote to Apathy"
    • Apryl Pooley- "The Human Element of Recovery from Mental Illness and Addiction" (PTSD as response to rape and other traumas; create healing and combat shame and guilt through social support, humanity, sharing one's story)
    • Young Yi- "The Problem of the Death Bed" (beating leukemia; regrets on the death bed; urgency, patience, and perseverance as key virtues to living a fulfilled life)
  • Nearly 2,000 attendees at this, the second TEDxMSU event! There were only a hundred-something people at the first one three years ago. What an awesome turnout!
  • Ran into friends Hilena and Marlee on my way out; photo op + food + long-overdue girl talk at a nearby caf
Congratulations to my friend boss-lady-coordinator-extraordinaire Irene, everyone in TEDxMSU (website / FB), and all the speakers for putting this fantastic event together. Y'all put a ton of hard work in over the past year, and I'm grateful to y'all for giving me the chance to experience a TED talk for the first time. Along with everyone else in attendance, I left feeling incredibly inspired. Thank you and well done to you all!








Tuesday, March 3, 2015

ドラマ (Dorama) Time! 7

Continuing from my most recent review post, here are the dramas that I watched between last semester and the end of February this year. In the order in which I finished them:

Going My Home (ゴーイング マイ ホーム) - Fuji TV/2012

I watched this series as part of my Advanced Spoken Japanese class last semester. Usually I don't include class related materials here, but I just had to share this one. It's a drama for everyone that takes a look at family relationships and figments of imagination.

This drama's main character is Ryota, an ad exec who's just going through the motions at work and at home, not really fitting in at either place. When he's forced to take a break from his job and his father falls ill, Ryota begins to take frequent trips to his hometown in the countryside in order to be by his father's side. He is often accompanied by his professional chef wife Sae, and their strangely imaginative child Moe. While there the trio bond with Ryota's family, but also discover another side to Ryota's father that they hadn't known about. Part of this unknown past involves the grandpa's best friend and his estranged daughter, Naho, who fights daily to boost the town's population and keep alive people's belief in the "kuna" a magical forest-dwelling, elf-like creature who's been part of local folklore for centuries. As Ryota attempts to understand his father better and figure out whether "kuna" are real or not, he also learns the meaning of family and the value that there is in looking beyond what's visible. Witty and heartwarming with quite an element of fantasy (and quite a few open ends), this drama is incredibly more enjoyable and thought-provoking than I had expected it to be. Plus it's full of inspirational  one-liners that make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. For example, "The world isn't only made up of things you can see", and "Having regret means that once there used to be love". If you're interested in watching a not-so-typical family drama, check out 'Going My Home'.


Dear Sister - Fuji TV/2014

This series centers on the ups and downs of sisterhood, and features two actresses whose work I'm somewhat familiar with: Matsushita Nao ('Kamo, Kyoto e Iku') and Ishihara Satomi ('Shitsuren Chocolatier'). At first, straight-laced and no-nonsense Hazuki (Matsushita) is shocked and incensed when her estranged spoiled and carefree little sister Misaki (Ishihara) lets herself into her apartment and moves in after not having spoken in years. Much fighting and bitterness ensues, as Misaki seems to do various things with the intention of  ruining Hazuki's life. But it's soon revealed that Misaki's a woman on a mission. She keeps a diary of things she has to do because SURPRISE! She's pregnant, and SURPRISE AGAIN! She has MS, which means she could be dying. Basically she wants to help better her older sister's life and make things right between them so that she can have someone to look after her baby and die with no regrets. I know what you're thinking. Come on, pregnancy and a potentially fatal disease all in the same character? Talk about overdramatics. But these developments are worked in gradually so that, as far-fetched as the situation is, it doesn't feel overdone.  Throw in both sister's respective love lives, the moral of "it's never to late to mend relations and follow your dreams", and affecting and sincere performances from two popular actresses, and you've basically got gold here. Plus, the series's insert/ending theme song ("Happiness" by Che'nelle) is BOMB! No wonder this show was a hit when it aired. If you want to tear up, laugh the air out of your lungs, and then tear up again, 'Dear Sister' is for you!


深夜食堂3 (Shinya Shokudō 3) - TBS/MBS/2014

Like season 2 this season again focuses on everyday people, but this time it digs more deeply into moral ambiguity and the often incomprehensible nature of people's actions. Episodes have the exact same format as in the first two seasons, but with more culinary dishes and more human interest stories.

As the final season of this series, I'm glad that the series kept Suzuki Tsunekichi's "Omoide" as the opening theme song throughout the entire duration of the series. Since I was introduced to this drama through my studies in Japan back in 2013, hearing this thoughtfully melancholy song always induces a bittersweet nostalgia for me. Also, this particular season's ending theme song "Yakimochi" by Takahashi Yu is arguably the most pleasing to the ears out of all three ending songs used for each respective season. It's sad to see such a wonderful series end. Maybe I'll catch the recently-released 'Shinya Shokudō' movie so I can get one last taste of the franchise.

Honorable Mention: Rich Man, Poor Woman - Fuji TV/2012

While writing this post I remembered that I'd watched another drama between this past summer and now. That drama would be 'Rich Man Poor Woman'. But I don't feel like writing about it in depth because  I've already written about four dramas that either Ishihara Satomi and Oguri Shun star in, and while they're two of my favorite actors I'd like to avoid overkill. So in a nutshell, this is a poor girl-rich guy love story set in the IT industry. Oguri plays a genius yet arrogant young IT mogul ("Toru"), while Ishihara plays a brilliant yet meek Tokyo University senior ("Makoto") who's having trouble finding employment. Through a series of events Toru hires Makoto as his assistant of sorts. And as Makoto helps the down-and-out Toru start a new business and deal with his past, their relationship doesn't stay platonic for long... I'll let you discover the rest! Don't let my lazy review be any indication of quality; this drama is definitely worth watching if you like lovey-dovey moments that are appropriately spaced out and aren't nauseating. I wasn't thrilled with how Makoto's character was written, but as Toru, Oguri has the jaded-misunderstood-mean-guy-but-really-nice-guy act down pat.

As usual it's hard for me to choose a winner this time around, but I'd have to go with 'Dear Sister' as my favorite this time. It's a heartwarming reprieve from the usual serious or gloomy stuff that you often see in fall or winter productions. And while I can't attest to whether its portrayal of sisterhood is realistic or not (shout-out to all the only children!), it's a feel-good story that makes you wish that it were true regardless. But of course, all of these dramas are definitely worth watching!

Monday, March 2, 2015

Motion ≠ Progress

As someone who is currently overwhelmed by the feeling that she's stagnant and is frightened by the prospect of "not getting anywhere in life",  I find it no coincidence that I spotted this after leaving a professor's office this evening.

Something to think about...

Sunday, March 1, 2015

Outings: Dice & Ice

This is my first outing ( going out and doing something fun on purpose) of the year! And it was pretty tame as far as nights out go. Ended February with more of a thud than a bang, but it's all good!

Dice & Ice - Munn Ice Arena (28 February)
  • Ate dinner at a different caf than usual and they had sausage bread! Sausage bread was a favorite Christmas treat of mine during high school and I hadn't had it in years; delicious and nostalgic!
  • Caught a glimpse of a poster promoting the "Love Yourself" campaign that's been going on throughout the month of February
  • First time visiting Munn Ice Arena: check.
  • Dice & Ice, aka Casino Night, aka Bingo Night for me since I don't play cards! Getting my grandma on, woop woop!
  • Speaking of which, a group of girls actually brought their grandma with them. This lady sat right up front, and she was killin' the game and having a ball!
  • Circa 1954 bingo cards 
  • Ahh, bingo is practically the simplest game ever, but people get so into it and it's hilarious when they do: "Talk louder!" and "Dang where my numbers at?? Can I get some numbers?!" and "N42! Call one more! I need N42!" 
  • At one point while I was playing one of the student planners of the event came up to me and said, "I know this is probably super creepy but I always love when you sing at open mic night. Keep doing it!" Shoutout to Danielle F. for the encouragement!
  • Pita Pit turkey + blt
  • Sparty making his rounds
  • Forgot how raffle tickets work (you turn in one half and keep the other), so I wasted the first two tickets I won; won four more and put them all in for a $30 Target gift card, but tonight wasn't my lucky night
  • DJ set highlights: "One Last Time" by Ariana Grande, "Dirty Little Secret" by All-American Rejects, "7/11" by Beyonce, "You Know, You Know" by Drake, and "24 Hours" by TeeFLii
  • My wares: 1) a plastic "gold coin" that I might've turned in for tickets but didn't wan to be greedy 2) a t-shirt promoting safe sex; not a particularly pertinent message for an abstinent virgin like myself, but hey! It was free, it's not in a hideous color, and it's got a duck on it, so why not?



Friday, February 27, 2015

Sessions with Sue 31

Today's session was fantastic! Well it was in retrospect, once the irritation in my eyes and the crying-induced migraine passed. I'd like to say that I had what one would call a "breakthrough". I've been really depressed lately mostly due to my weight/appearance/stalled weight loss progress, but in our session we instead discussed difficulties with the job search and my trepidation about the future. Through this avenue we struck a key issue of mine: my fixation with needing to be special. And this goes wayyy back, probably all the way back to elementary school. Ever since elementary school people would commend me for doing things well, and I enjoyed being a high-achiever, and so it became cemented in my mind that Deela is someone who does things well. I have to live up to that. I have to always do things well, I have to excel because that's just what Deela does. I guess I was lying when I told Ma that I didn't want to be admired by others.

  • Always felt like you needed to be special, different from others, remarkable, recognized and remembered for doing/being the extraordinary
  • That's what makes this time difficult; feeling like you're 22, graduating from college, and haven't done anything great, all you've managed to be is just a regular student. Or being reminded through this so-far unsuccessful job search process that you're just one of many again
  • Want to be set apart, yet you're plagued by the awareness that there are always others who can do things better than you; you're setting yourself up for an extreme that you can't reach
  • Even just a little networking is something you'll have to do; but just because it's contrary to your nature or you haven't done much of it doesn't mean all is lost; the work you've done still counts for something
  • What's wrong with being a regular, typical person? Would that really be so bad?
  • Contentment equals complacency, stagnancy, giving up in your mind; just accepting the way things are feels like admitting defeat
  • But being content with where you are in life and working toward something greater do not have to be mutually exclusive
  • Even though you're not looking forward to graduation, one thing to consider is that you'll no longer have anything expected of you in the way of readings and assignments. Your time will be yours again; you can focus more on what Deela wants instead of always feeling like you can't sacrifice the time to do anything that deviates from the to-do list
  • Very results-oriented person; rather than just going along with journey, or taking comfort in the idea that you're exactly where you're supposed to be, or doing something simply because you enjoy it and it interest you, you're concerned with whether it will yield favorable results or not
  • You're right, from here on out the trajectory of your life depends on you; open-ended, no prescribed route, and that's terrifying; but maybe you could just pick something and see how it goes, rather than agonizing over whether it's exactly the best or right choice

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Miss my Pups!

I miss going to the shelter. Last time I went the trails weren't shoveled or plowed,  so I couldn't really walk any of the dogs. Couple that with the frigid temperatures and harsh winds, and it just hasn't seemed worth the energy driving all the way out there.

It looks like we'll transition out of the teens next week and gradually move on to warmer pastures from the following week on,  so I'm looking forward to returning to the shelter after spring break.

For now,  here's a photo I took during my second to last time there. Don't remember the name of the dog I was walking, but apparently he was friendly.